Hello, whisperstothesun,
You're too cool!
It is what it is, my friend. I think you know that.
Certainly I understand pain. I do so much better these days but I've never forgotten the darkness in the a.m. hours when it was just me, my dog and God.
I have TOS with bad neck and back. Suffered hell with bilateral arms and upper body for 7 1/2 years. It took a lot of different treatment modalities. the last with the best relief came with LED and infrared light therapy pads. They're a little pricy but have helped me a lot. I managed to get three and have used them for almost 2 years now. Will share more info if you're interested.
TOS is a battle. I understand RSD is a beast to bear too. So sorry you're suffering like that.
You have come to a great place for support and understanding. You will find lots of helpful people here. There's so much info here, it's overwhelming. If you need help getting around, just let us know.
The "SEARCH" buttom is a nice feature. It's really helpful.
Peace