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Old 10-06-2010, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Janke View Post
You can pay your legal debts. How much do you owe your mother? What were the terms of your agreement? When she fronted you the food and shelter, what did the two of you agree on?

Without an agreement, you have no loan. You cannot make food and shelter become a loan after the fact.
We didn't have an official agreement, that's why I was asking... because I didn't think it was allowed to give her money unless it was a situation where I had a lease or something and hadn't paid for several months.

I haven't paid her the same amount any time--I just give her what I can, whenever I can. Not just for rent, but for bills, groceries, etc.

I was just asking to make sure I was understanding correctly that I cannot just hand her some cash if I don't have anything stating that I owe her money.
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