Thank you for pointing out what I'm not seeing. You are right- they are concerned- I just was taken back by their way of showing it. If I think of it- that is how they have always been. Sadly, I should have known not to share anything with either of them. Ironically, that is what DH tells me from time to time.

Live and learn. I need to learn from all mistakes from the past.
Thank you for the advice Mari.
Hugs
Coffeegirl