Sadly, my sister will never change. She means well- like Mari said- but has no kooth about doing it in the right manner. She has always been that way. She also has a tendency to be vindictive to others- whenever she is down; which is often. Ironically, I am always there for her- even though she takes me forgranted and has no clue how I have put up with her stuff our entire lives. I wish she would change- but I learned a long time ago- you can't change others- just how we react to them. It has been a long route just to get to that phase of thinking. Live and learn the hard way!