John was tested also but for different reasons. We were opposed but the doc slipped the test in with a bunch of others. I guess we needed to say NO very loudly because our discussion with him didn't translate well. I too was concerned about false positives for good reasons. I told this guy that with all John's been through, HIV would have killed him by now so there was really no good reason to pursue it. He was convinced that it played a role. I'm glad he was wrong on this and on the many other things that he was convinced were a problem. BTW....we dropped him like a hot potato. He was bad for our health and wellbeing.

I understand your anxiety around this issue. But just take it a step at a time and try not to worry about the "what if's"

Marlene