Colombiangirl, this is truely from the heart. You dearly love your family. Sometimes though I think when it is the inlaws, we NEVER meet their expectations, even it one was perfect they see the flaws.

You are a beutiful person, be good to yourself, husband and family, that is what counts. Say a prayer for those that don't understand.
You can't educate them, they are set in their ways. But, many friends and other family have unconditional love, that is what counts.

For everyday the others live yours is twice as long and twice as difficult until you rest your head.
But you have great friends to make here
Nice to chat last night,
dianne