I feel the same way you do! My mother is recovering from a ruptured brain aneurysm that happend in August and she is home and doing relatively well except her memory loss. She talks about things that never happend and beleives they are real. When we correct her she gets defensive and mad because she thinks she is right. When my dad tries to give her her medicine, she questions him everytime like he is trying to poison her. She can't remember conversations after 5 minutes of having them. Yet, she is still the same old sweet, caring mother, just gets everything confused and can't remember. I hope this gets better with time. It's really sad to see her like this. IF you look at her, you'd think she's fine. She still has the same old instincts to clean up after herself, thinks the same things are funny, but just gets confused and aggitated when she tries to talk. Have your doctors said anything about yoru husband and his memory problems?