I understand too. I take my dogs to our dog park if I'm up to it. It helps me to get my mind off what hurts and to be around other people. It really does help me. Plus, it is great to watch my puppy wear herself out playing. And maybe the folks there hurt too, but it generally isn't discussed. Or I'll take her for a walk if I can, just to get out of the house a few min. Or maybe go with a friend for coffee. Anything I can do to distract myself from myself helps.