Sorry you're feeling so miserable, CG.

As Sally said, you'll learn how to "budget" your time more efficiently with MS as time goes by. Being the proverbial Type A myself, I've tried remembering something my former mother-in-law said to me when my kids were little (before MS). "They (kids) won't remember if your house is spotless, dishes all done and put away, etc., etc., etc., but they WILL remember the times you spent with them." It really helped me put things in perspective and now that they're all grown up with kids of their own, sure enough, my MIL was right!!
Feel better soon.