It is a very frustrating process when our partners can't be supportive....for whatever reason. I ignored my bad marriage for years......busy with kids and careers, figured we'd find time for couples time sometime in the future. Losing control of my body with this rsd beast made me want to address what was in my control.....fixing my marriage, unfortunately, it didn't work out so well.

If you want this relationship to last, you've got to work on it. Share how you are feeling and try to educate your partner. Leting your resentment build makes it harder to fix the problem.