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Originally Posted by finz
If you want this relationship to last, you've got to work on it. Share how you are feeling and try to educate your partner. Leting your resentment build makes it harder to fix the problem.
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Good advice. I've never thought much of counselors as I thought most were all just Paid Listeners. Fortunately we found a kind lady that helps both of us in individual sessions.
I'm not much of a talker/sharer when it comes to deep, hard-to-talk about subjects. I don't like getting out of my comfort zone and will avoid those talks then become the passive-aggressive type. But gradually I'm sharing more and he's learning more and together we're getting better.