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Old 10-29-2010, 03:17 PM
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So sorry for your sadness Dej. I can seriously understand what your saying! You are a do-er kind of person, you do it all!! You spend a lot of time and energy taking care of everyone, sounds like. I understand what Craig is trying to say, but I don't know if you know how, ...but how do we stop doing? I don't know how to stop... It wears you out!!
I think someone might be disappointed in me, if I don't worry about everything for everyone. Trouble is, now everybody expects it of me.
Sometimes I'm afraid to tell my husband how I feel, about doing stuff for me, cause I don't want him to disappointed in me, that I can't handle everything.
I understand what your saying.
Sometimes, I just stay up late , he goes to bed early for work, and just hang out, in peace. That's about the only me time I get.
We will be here, if you need to vent, and know, we are thinking about ya!
Deb
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