Sally, I'm so sorry for your loss. That is one of my greatest fears in life and I get angry when mine promises me he isn't going anywhere. That's a promise none of us can keep. It's sad that us women outlive men. Like childbirth and motherhood wasn't enough to have to deal with.

I used to tutor widows on the computer and my heart goes out to every one of them. I used to adopt them all into my family! Widows have a very special place in my heart.