Thank you Jenna for your kind words. We are all sharing our experiences. Its amazing how pain has brought such an incredible bunch of people together too.

Thanks for the tip about babies being heavy. She is just 4 months bless her and now weighs just under 12lbs so still light ........ish I'm babysitting tonight and as I type, she is asleep beside my bed. Our first sleepover. Wonderful.
Best get some shut eye before the 4am feed

Nite all xx