good night Jackie... so exciting for you but i know just how mammy and daddy feel as they enjoy there first night away from feeds !! she may be just 12lb but thats a dead weight so just be careful i know i am not allowed lift either of my two even now and when she was a baby i used to hold her on a pillow as it made it easier on my back. just would hate to see you in more pain but goodnight you need to catch your sleep and enjoy her but don't be shocked when u see the parents early tomorrow as even with us after an hour or two away from them u just miss them like crazy! dont know how i am going to survive a week without my little ladies but not going to think about that for now as that's still 5 days away!!