Dear Waves,
Regarding disclosure- it's a personal choice. I take it a bit farther- I really limit what I tell people about personal or health info. I just don't trust people. I've had a life full of lessons on that subject.
After I told my manager I was dx with MS, she told everyone, then I was run out of my job.
I'm happy to hear that you are getting calls re: employment!!!
It sounds like the volunteer coordinator at the epilepsy center is a lot more affable than the office supervisor. I hope that you'll be able to work with him outside the office.
I wish that everything was rosier for you, but I'm glad that you're keeping yourself busy,
Kay