Why don't you just check with the number on your SSI papers that you received.??? They provided you with a phone number and everything.
Ask THEM these question!

Is there really a need to bite these people's heads off who are trying to help the best they can??

C'mon Sarah, lets put our 'friendly' hats on and remember this is a SUPPORT group

Try to get some REST.....you have a very important procedure coming up.

Caring (and concerned)
Rae