Vent away.

We all need to be able to vent.

I suggest/hope that you just stay home with the important people in your life, and make any kind of Thanksgiving dinner possible. The goal should be just to be with one another, even if it is ovr a dinner comprised of BP&J, milk and coffee.

Most people do not understand what it is like to be in your shoes, or DH's shoes. They never will.

Do what is best for you.

-Vic