It would be nice if they would come and join you at your home and make TG dinner for you..
I am so glad that my DD and DSSs don't demand a big celebration, anymore. They had their fill of them when they were growing up.

Fun but very stressful and hectic.
DD has a bunch of kids, so she likes to have a family TG at home. I choose to stay home and wait for leftovers.
Christmas day they all come here for the celebration. I love it this way....no stress and still lots of fun.