Just had to post a bit about the realization that my new home aid is not working out. I am not sure why or if this person is just this way and it is a mistake by the agency. I asked for someone who could work, do things without alot of intervention . But she is kinda doing her own thing turning my home into hers it feels. And now its not just costing me time and trouble it is costing me money as she bought groceries I cant eat and were explained to her yet she got other things. My last person would call on her cell to ask about things when something was out or different. I have explained things that now she is just not doing. She is real smart and capable. It just isnt working.

I hate the idea of starting again with someone else but at this point it would be easier. The agency itself isnt returning phone calls so I think it may be best to change agencies all together.

Hate hate hate this. I guess it seems obvious to me that a person who is so sick needs to be asked and consulted and not just bulldozed. I have lost enoguh this year and now she is losing my fricken underpants because she is reorganizing and not telling where to!! What may have pushed to the end here is that this is the second week I asked about her putting lotion on my back and she acted like yes and then didnt do it.

Annie59