Cherie -- I'm so sorry to read about your daughter. As if you don't have enough stress in your life! My prayers will be with her and of course you too as you search for answers and solutions.

My three adult children live just far enough away that I don't 'observe' their daily lives. Really believe it's a good thing since sometimes it's difficult for us Moms to let go no matter what the age!!

Take care......Judy...aka msproperlady