Lilly, that's not right, hon! This is what I was afraid was going to happen! That new people were going to be scared and stop posting!

I believe your pastor and friends were talking about instant messages and such. Trust me sweetie, there is no viable reason to suspect anyone here of being a "spy!" If there were, the evidence would have been turned over and the spy would have been banished already!

Nobody wants you to be afraid of posting, sweetie! You need support, and you need to be able to talk to people. Don't be afraid to! TALK, open up to us. Don't just sit back and read. You need to be able to talk, too! Just don't give out your full name, address, phone number, social security number, etc. No personal info like that, and you'll be fine. Nobody here is going to do anything to you hon.

This is what overactive imaginations do. They make people who NEED SUPPORT stop posting...and that's not what we're all about. We're about SUPPORT.

Lilly, based on your past posts, that's exactly what you need is SUPPORT. And that's why we are here. So please...pay no attention to that comment, and just practice the common online safety rules, and everything will be just fine hon. K? Now...what is going on with you sweetie?