peg,

i really feel for you and what you're going thru.
i'm so glad that the counselor is coming to see you and your mom.
i agree with talking to your mom. see if you two and come up with a compromise.

i was going to suggest calling your MS society but you're way ahead of me.
try to think in problem solving mode.

don't give up peg. i think esperanza will come around as you can change her circumstances. keep us updated. we're here for you.