lou lou,
I am outraged by the treatment yoou have gotten from this rotten doctor. I not only would report him/her to your state medical board but I would be very vocal around town about his treatment to you. Menapause be damned, don't ever use it as an excuse - you have real feelings and real symptoms that should be addressed and not tossed out due to menopause. And then to bill you for services not rendered is mental harassment. Your former doc is not only incompetant, but is a sadist as well. We are all in your corner - hold up your head high and let 'em have it.

TG