first off he states that she was dx'ed AFTER they got married.

he also says that she had concealed a past histery of "mental illness". what was it? depression? she wasn't on meds...so it might have been situational...like after a death or a loss.

sorry, but i didn't tell my hubby about every illness i took meds for in the past. i'm not trying to make light of her past illness. but it might not be something that really played a part of her life when they were dating or when they got married...or have anything to do with her dx of bipolar.

and you are so right jaqcuie.

what if his wife was dx'ed with cancer? diabetits? would he want out then too?