Kimmydawn,
The games I like are all for the same reason - something to play to occupy my brain, while still being able to pay attention to the world around me, and games that take some concentration/intelligence but that don't give me a "thinking too hard" headache and don't frustrate me by being too difficult.
I like to have fun on the computer, but I don't like when a game consumes me by either taking all of my time or all of my attention. Like you, I play to relax..... so I have a feeling you will enjoy many of the games that I like.
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