Dear Ellen,

You blocked messages.
I can't send you two links.
I will try to do it from here.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=11


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Also try nami.org
They work with families.


I have to run. I'll be back.
The short answer is that you can't really do anything -- depending on what state you live in.

M.