Cathie,
I didn't see this thread yesterday, sorry no one's answered. It's a tough decision and no one wants to tell you to do the wrong thing. We all care about you. I can't make this decision either. You..are the one who has to make it. Have you discussed it with your husband?

I can sympathize with you and your husband. My husband is much like yours and we're going thru a crisis too. Let us know what you decide to do.

Hugs,

Billye