Hi, MrsD-
You once defined for me what "verklempt" meant. Please try not to be if you possibly can.
It goes without saying that you're in all our thoughts and are so much valued by everyone at this forum.
Wishing you the very best in the days to come, and am so sorry you're going through all this. You'll be okay - just wait and see.
From one white-haired old lady to another, a large hug.
Sheltiemom