Rather than going to a neurologist, a better doctor would be a specialist in Physical and Rehabilitation Medicine. They often work at Rehab clinics. They will have access to the tests and therapists to diagnose and treat your issues. Most likely, you just need to learn some work-arounds and accommodations. Some therapists are good at helping you learn these. Others are clueless.

As I said earlier, your increased stress load is most likely the cause of your flare up of symptoms. Getting a good review of your hormones would also be helpful. There is a good referral system to find a doctor who truly understands hormones at https://www.womensinternational.com/..._referral.html

My best to you.