My wreck was April 2010. My boyfriend says I'm definitely NOT the same person. Yes, some of me that he really liked is gone. He's learning to deal with the new me, just as I am. I'm fortunate that he cares enough for me to do that.

No real advice but he needs to be supporting you at this time not making matters worse by adding stress. If he can't do that he might not be able to handle a relationship with you.