Thank you my simian friend.
Actually, she does have a computer, and I am trying to get her to use it! I sent her an e-mail yesterday, and gave her the site-address for NT. Even told her my user-name, so she can spy on me if she wants. I think she would like it here, but like you said, you never can tell.
I'm sorry to hear that things are still going so rough for you.
I wish there was something I could do to help you out, after all the help you've given me.
And Calm, thank you for the compliment. I just wish I had realized what she was going through a long time ago. In my family, things like that are pretty much kept under the table. She has seen a therapist, but any benefits she got were give-and-take.