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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 292
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 292
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Agree with Di too
Victoria,
I am so sorry this happened  A mother-daughter relationship is so special.
I don't understand why she couldn't or wouldn't sit down and talk this
out. Sometimes trying to talk things out though, is like banging your head
against the wall 
Situations live this have to be a two way street.
You are going through a tender time right now with so much of
the pain that you thought was gone,
coming back 
One thing I would like to mention and pat you on the back for...
Sometimes these things are a generational thing. I saw stuff like this
happen in families from mother to daughter & to her daughter.
I'm so proud that you are going to be the one who won't stand for it and
will stop it. Someone needs to stand up and take the lead and you did it so good
for you.
So now, you must guard your heart and not let anyone hurt you like this again.
It is hard to balance the two, being nice and loving and not letting someone walk on
you and mistreat you at the same time. But this experience taught you a lesson.
I hope that you don't have a flare because of this and things work out better in the end.
Even though this happened you still love your mother and father. Don't let them see you angry.
I always see the love in your post so we all know what a caring person you are. That makes it all the more easy for you to get hurt.
We are here for you and vent away when you need or want to 
Hugs of Love and Support........Hope
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