Ok i get the message no one on this site has heard of it either, i am begining to think it is made up, just for me, so i can be treated as horrid as possible to see how far i go before i snap, well there is no one to compare treatment with and i have no one to fight for my rights so it really does not matter how i am treated, i am only a statistic afterall....... SNAP.... there i have finally snapped, maybe now i will be treated as a human being with needs and feelings that need addressing! oh well one can always hope!