I probably shoudn't have made this post...I was REALLY down in the dumps about something that happened with the person who is most important in my life. Most of the time I can make myself look on the brighter side of things. But this time things just caught up with me. Noone to talk to about it, so turned to NT friends. Thank you for listening.

Lara,
You are right when you said:
"It's the trying and the doing that matters. It's not how that is received." Thanks for reminding me!

Leesa,
You are right...I need to be nicer to myself! I will give that a try...

Vowel Lady,
You are very perceptive! But, this person isn't someone I can replace. We have a lifelong commitment. It's just a situation I deal with...and most of the time I handle it pretty well. I really appreciate your kindness.

Anne, Thank you also for you kindness.

I am feeling better about the situation now. I appreciate your being here for me.