MW,
You're just going to need to get Vocal. DON'T TOUCH!
Don't touch me here, or there! I love ya's but, I hurt, please.....RESPECT!

This is a Good time for a little Drama, (that none of us like), but, if there's a crowd around or not, swell up a little bit with tears, rather than holding it in.
Once you do this, word will spread quickly, if you handle it right, (be apologetic etc.) but, Let them know, in no uncertain terms! DO NOT TOUCH!

Also, it seems to me, that you might need a bit more pain control if you're that sensitive.
27+ yrs talking here.
I wish you All the Best!

Pete

asb