so as i read and what info i have already read about rsd, im asking you all, from a spouses point of view ( wife here) , what do you do to help with your spouce with rsd, how to make things better for them, with the frustrating times, the non sleep times- the medication making you feel weird times the pain is so painful they want to cut there limb off times you know give me some advice to help make it easier on them and it might help me as well ( does make me want to cry knowing what rsd does to a person) as of now we are both disabled and home so i can help him thur out the day, maybe its just the frustrating time hes feeling inside his body and he cant do nothing about it i try to be understanding but im human we lash out at eachother at times we dont deal with stress to well both dealing with there own desases and our bodys feeling this n that inside we are both stuborn och bite my tounge lol , mabe i dont know what to be asking maybe just how another spouse copes-handle-with there spouse going to thru RSD?? (want to use the right word dont want you to think im not sensitve ) linda