You're so right Kelly! The cane does make it worse. I'm much better with a grocery cart too. I do have a rollator but I only use it if I go somewhere that requires a lot of walking because then I have my own portable seat. You should really get one if you can. It makes going out solo much easier. I felt awkward using it at first until I decided I was just being stubborn (and vain ). Now if I could just make myself use my scooter .