I stopped Hubby before he left to the gym to tell him to edit himself more.

Last night he was not helpful when, in front of my friend, he asked me if I wore my hair "like that" outside the house.

This morning, he said that my hair needed combing and he was just trying to be helpful.






NOT HELPFUL.

So I had another brief conversation this morning to tell him that the point of communication w/ one's spouse is not about information but about feelings.

He said he would do a better job next time.
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I will start keeping a log of his insensitive comments and read them back to him 7 days from now. Then I will make an apt. with him to ask him how he thinks he has improved our lives together by saying those things.

Jerk.
M.