Hi there.
You poor thing. You are really having a time of it aren't you? All I can do is say Welcome, give you a gentle hug

and please know that you are in the right place. Someone will pop along and try and answer all your questions.
I am sorry that I am not knowledgable enough to do that. All I can do is let you know that we are a nice bunch of people and someone will respond to you postings.
Best of luck
Melody