Hey everybody, this is my first post here, but I used to post on the brainsite once in a while before it crashed and burned. I recognize a lot of people from there.

So what have I been up to? Well things are going pretty well for me. I just got married on the third.(3rd time) We've been together for almost two years now and so far my TOS hasn't been a problem for her. She has lupus herself, so she understands really well how is to not feel good. So there are people out there who will put up with us TOSers but they're not easy to find. I finally got lucky.

I was just thinking, my TOS started when I was 18, and I'll be 45 this year. Sometimes I don't know how I've made it this long without putting a bullet through my head, but time goes by and you just do the best you can. I hope everyone is doing well and taking care of themselves. Coop