Thank you Don for listening to me squack. I appreciate the people in this site helping me. It makes you feel that you are not quite so alone in the struggles. Being disabled is hard enough without family horror stories and all the acencies treating you badly. The whole system is really flawed to say it mildly. I was running back and forth between DCF and SS office. Neithor office would look up my information though I requested help. So now I do have an attorney to help me, I had no choice, because nobody would tell me what was happening to my case. Ginnie