[Loss happens for so many of us in our dissabilities. I have lost myself too at times. I am at risk of loosing my home too. Job, family, self- esteem, money, future, friends, gone. just like that and it stinks. I hate it as much as you do, and loss feels horrible. I am not doing it alone. I am here in this site as much as I can be for support. I got a dr. involved with my personal trauma with my family. I went back to my SS lawyer for help with the current problems. I am asking questions and asking for help. Keep coming back to the site, and there will be others who may be able to help you too. I am sorry you have that injury, my neighbor has brain injury too and was only recently given his benefits. Keep asking for help, and don't stop trying. ginnie