I am SO sorry to be reading this!
This doctor seems to be a complete fluke of nature!!!
What is he doing with a needle!!

I'm so sorry you are being ping-ponged like this.
The first thing that came to mind was the possibility of a spinal fluid leak? (CSF)

We have a forum here that has alot of info on this if you think it's something that might be what you are facing. Here is the link to get you to that forum....
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/fo...aysprune=&f=78

Try to remain calm and not think of the worse. I'm glad you have your boyfriend there with you. I've heard that valium can cause very intense and vivid dreams.
Does your headache seem to subside if you lie flat and drink caffeinated beverages?

Your post is very alarming. If I were you, I would actually print the post off and take it with you! You need to be heard!

Others will be along with good suggestions.
I just couldn't read your post and not respond.
My heart truly goes out to you

Caring!
Rae