i am really sorry.

i am wondering...

was he always like this? i mean do you feel that he started behaving differently (more selfishly) after you got married?

does he feel that you are selfish in other ways?

is he always like this, or is it episodic?

it really sounds to me like you guys could benefit from couples counseling but i know that's easier said than done, between work and sleep and life in general, plus it is something both parties must be vested in for it to help....

~ waves ~