Love has many faces as you now know. Intamacy is important. I really wish I could say something to really help you. I do know, if you two can just hold each other in bed, talk to each other with no sexual intention, just to feel the human hug. Spoon and chat to each other, be close in the mind and spirit. Reach out to her somehow with compassion in your heart, that she will feel. Men have a tuff time with emotions sometimes, women need the emotions and a mental state that is in balance. Hugging just may restore some balance and allow you to get closer. I am so glad you have the love between you. When a person is so injured, I believe she needs you more than ever, even if she can't express it. I am telling you that because I need hugs. I get long moments just to hold on to another. It keeps me from going over the edge sometimes, and returns me to a better state of mind. I wish you both all the best.ginnie