well...

I had a talk with them... they have agreed that I can have my carer in for a bit in the evening for silly things like tablets etc (as they are controlled drugs I can't really let them give them to me until they have been shown or some such ridiculous stuff). They were really worried about confidentiality until I pointed out that my carer would have to know where I dissapeared too......... otherwise there would be issues! theyt have also agreed I can have them in the morning to help me get up (otherwise I will be stuck on a sofa bed). We aren't quite sure about the other stuff but they have agreed we can play it by ear - basically my carers can be on stand by in my flat and if I need them I will give them a ring.. until people are more confident with helping me if I need it.....

YAY.....

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