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Old 02-20-2011, 04:41 PM
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Dearest Catlouce ~ Of course she will be with your Dad and husband!!! They will be waiting for her when she crosses over. You don't have to worry about that. We are always met by family and friends.

I hope you are feeling a little better since your dear husbands passing. I know it's only been about 6 months or so, and you are still grieving ~ but hopefully the pain is easing a bit. I didn't begin to feel like "myself" until I hit about the one year mark. Then I could talk about my husband without falling apart ~ I could actually crack a little smile when thinking or talking about him.

In time, your husband will "visit" you. Perhaps you will feel a presence in your room, or smell his cologne or even feel a tap on your shoulder. It won't be your imagination. I've had several "visits" from my husband - and once he even had the audacity to tap me on my fanny!!! i live alone, so no one was playing tricks on me!! So be patient -- it may take awhile.

Please keep us update on how you're doing. God bless you. Hugs, Lee
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