yes he was working FT -40 hrs a week when laid off in May 2010. He applied for disability in July 2010. I do cleary remember the SSDI case worker saying that if he wins the case he can no longer collect unemployment. Now SSDI has been well aware that he has been collecting.

If we stop collecting we will not get by. We would lose this house for sure.

But at this point i'm not sure how to approach this, he could call in to unemployment and ask them, but will they cut him off? Or even worse- ask for all that money back, which is long gone.

What happens if he just stops applying online every week? We do his unemployment online, so if he never signs back in, wont they just stop his payments and thats it? Or will they call us and ask why he stopped applying for unemployment benefits?

Yes , this is super stressful on the entire family. With 2 little kids and a home, its tough.

Thanks for responding!