Thanks guys. I am just beyond frustrated because I see what she is doing to her children and I cannot do anything about it. The oldest is 21, the middle child is 17 and the youngest is 10. Their father is just as bad as their mom, and if I call CPS it would only be the youngest child who would be torn out of the situation and placed outside of the family.

And the latest news.... she is now dating my niece's boyfriend's cousin... who is 20! ummm, yeah. But somehow I am the badguy for saying something about it. Oh well, like I said, i cannot control the situation or her so it is best to cut my losses and walk away.

Hey Dej, you can be my new sis anytime. Maybe we should introduce our sisters, they might be friends you never know.